Positioning yourself for your Boaz...Part 1
- Rachael
- Apr 17, 2017
- 2 min read
About three weeks ago my Pastor's wife approached me, she asked if I could prepare a short exhortation for our next Ladies Meeting at church. She titled it " how to identify your Boaz". Prior to that time the holy spirit had given me some points, and I penciled it down, on how single ladies can position themselves to be found, and to me that was a conviction to ago ahead with what the holy spirit had ministered to me. The reason I started thinking about this is because I see many ladies who desire to be married but they have positioned themselves wrongly.
For your Boaz to find you, you have to have the right attitude. See Ruth in the bible( Read Ruth 2 verse 1-end) had a positive attitude despite her situation and she made sure she positioned herself where she could be found. A lot of ladies would rather be "miss nice"to every single guy they meet or to outsiders, while their attitude towards their close friends and families are the worst! Be good and kind towards everyone around you whether it be at church, at work or at school.
Another point to emphasize is you have to be willing to change your thinking. Most ladies I know and are close to me will say things like" well you know I love shoes and fancy things so he has to be able to give me that" really though? Is marriage all about what material things a guy can give you? Marriage is a lifetime commitment, all the fancy things he can give shouldn't determine your future, it is the love and how you can both serve and love God with the relationship that should be your ultimate goal. Stop with all the excuses and demands serve God,seek his face daily and love him to the point that when your Boaz finally sees you, he will thank the lord for you every single day of his life.
Remember that God loves you more than you could ever think or imagine, he sent his son Jesus Christ to die on the cross so whatever you need he's got it!
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